It's been a bit mad in the house with kids staying over and I was having to sit in the living room whilst the children sneak down for 'midnight' snacks. And then I get told that I need to put a favourite film on to calm me down before I drive him nuts. I'm not sure what I did. I don't know what I could have done to avoid it. But I have really pissed him off yet again. I said to him I don't understand what happened and he said he was just trying to help me as I needed to calm down. I was only sitting at the computer?? Yes, I was waiting to be able to leave the room as I wanted to use the bathroom but I didn't realise that I wasn't calm. He said I needed help and he was just trying to help. But I am a person not just something that he thinks needs help. I was just waiting for the children to go to bed so I could relax and enjoy the evening. I've not had tea yet and had only just realised it was 9:30 and may be I was giving off funny vibes because I am useless when I have not eaten but I don't understand what I have done. I wasn't ranting or raving. The room was a mess and I was waiting to clear it up once I knew the children weren't coming back down to trash it. What did I do? Don't want to be crying again. What did I do?
Hey MDM , it seems to me he was making some assumptions. Could this situation have stressed you before and so he was pre empting it ? Hope you are ok x
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